Updated: Oct 17, 2022
Lecturer: Zuleika Lebow
Pre-word: How to Ask Better Questions - Mike Vaugn
Capacity to design 0 decision making.
What to think vs How to think
Unlearn and relearn.
Different perspectives = Conflict = Demoralising
Ask good questions - reduce conflict - common language.
Demistifying the unknown - possibilities
Importance of words and wording (reframing) our questions.
Instead of saying 'Why are they lazy?', reframe to 'How can I get them motivated?'
In a question, you get what you asked for.
Ask Better Questions to Build Better Connections - Amber L. Wright
Genuine curioity without being intrusive.
Her story on Khalid - there's a personal connect. About how she connected with her student based on his love for hip hop is relavant to how I work.
'Act old and young at the same time'. That moment perceptions were shattered and a connection was made. They felt seen.
Go from a passive learner to an active researcher.
Is my question:
Complex and Argueable?
Wants to save. Know that I can save.
Take a broken world.
Imperfect hero: my idea here.
Make my villain great - rebuttal? Challenges? Make the villain bad.
Find the exciting journey - How am I solving this? Interventions?